You’re doing your best; examining your behaviors, checking yourself, putting in safeguards, but then you buy something you didn’t mean to. Maybe you slipped emotionally, or fiscally. Whatever it happens.
“We must simply learn to become whole and complete within ourselves, free to be with or without a companion, free to depend upon ourselves, know who we are, not be led around by other, but walk freely on our own two feet on this precious earth. When you are able to do that, you do not have to protect a false image of yourself in order to feel lovable: – Zen and The Art of Falling In Love.