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Age Appropriate, Who Cares Anymore?

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There’s this time where I was really concerned about whether what I was wearing was age appropriate.

But recently, I just don’t care.  I am who I am and that’s just that.  I’ve never been a booty short kind of girl, so there’s really no fear of my being that kind of woman.  Otherwise, braided buns over 30 with boho dresses? Why the heck not?  You just gotta be who you are you know?

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Sweater – I forget  //  Dress & Boots – ThreadSence  //  Sock – FreePeople  //  Necklace – Lustre Boutique  //  Rings – I forget *old*

Fringe, Shift, and Beach

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Dress – ThreadSence //  Cardigan – Ruche   //  Scarf – old, I forget  //  Boots – Aldo  //  Necklace – Vanessa Mooney  //  Socks – FreePeople

Still desolate, still snowy ice caps, but it’s a beach. The wind was cold and howling but…. It’s a beach and it’s not covered with piles and piles of snow.  It’s a beach.  That in itself makes me very happy.

What’s making you happy today?

A Polka Dot Dress and Bums

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Polka Dot Dress – ASOS  //  Cardigan – ThreadSence  //  Socks – FreePeople  // Boots – Aldo  //  Bag – Lucky Brand  //  Necklace – Vanessa Mooney via Threadsence  //  Sunnies – Lace Affair

Cleaning up after dinner, I reached down and squeezed my little girl’s bum.

“Mama, why you do that?”

“‘Cause I like your bum.  It’s beautiful.”

“No Mama, my bum’s not beautiful.”

“No?”

“No. ‘Cause bums are stinky and farty.”

“Okay, well I still think it’s beautiful.”

“Maaaama,” she says shaking her head.

*linking up with Fab Favs*

How I Despise “Must” Haves

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Xanadu Dress – Spell Designs  //  Sweater – UO  // Boots – Aldo  //  Sunnies, Necklace & Belt – F21  //  Bag – Target

 I don’t know if it’s my rebellious nature, or just my cynical view on things, but I seriously dislike when anyone posts articles on “Must Haves.”  It’s applicable across the board, but I’m mostly referring to fashion posts here.  The “Must Haves in Every Closet”, “Must Haves for Spring” etc., etc.  You know what I’m talking about.  Us women have seen them, and continue to see them every season.

Every magazine and blogger always has these “Must Have” articles.  Frankly, I think it’s ridiculous. Why ‘must’ you have it? What’s gonna happen if you don’t?  You don’t need to have anything except weather appropriate clothing to keep you safe from the elements.  That’s what you ‘must have’ and even then, if you don’t well, that’s at your own risk.  You’re a grown up and can make those choices for yourself.

Further, these must haves are not applicable to everyone, so why must you have them?  I don’t own a crisp button up white shirt. I haven’t owned one for about eight years.  It’s on everyone’s ‘Must Have’ list, yet I haven’t needed it for eight years.  So perhaps it’s not actually a ‘Must-Have’?

These are generic lists for generic people and they don’t reflect individuality. They should be called “suggested haves.”  Because not only do they paint you inside a generic box, but they also make you feel like you are somehow without or lacking if you don’t own these things. I call bullshit on that. I don’t own a set of classic black pumps.  And thought I do have a classic black blazer, I honestly have worn it for about nine years.  So why must I have these things? Clearly I don’t.

What must you have in your wardrobe?  Those pieces that define you and that function in your lifestyle. That’s it. That’s all you ‘must have’  and tell anyone who says differently to shove it somewhere.

Staying Chic in the Winter with Maxi Skirts and Dresses

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Skirt & Cardigan – Ruche  //  Top – UO  //  Belt – I forget  //  Boots – ThreadSence  //  Bag – thrifted  //  Metallic tattoo – eBay

Sometimes I think I’m completely crazy.  On this day, on one of the coldest Februarys on record, I took off all my layers and posed for the camera to grab outfit shots.  Yup, completely certifiable.

But seriously, maxi skirts and dresses are a great way to stay chic during the colder months because they look great but also allow for leggings and thigh high wool socks underneath….which you can bet that I had on!  It’s all about the layers and layers I tell ya.

What’s awesome is that right now, I’m in Miami.  Enjoying the much warmer temps.  See you in a few days and expect some much warmer and funner pictures.  Ones where I’m not wondernig if I’ve gotten frostbite on my clavicle.

merci
xoxo

If You Can’t Beat ‘Em, Join ‘Em

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Cardigan – ThreadSence  //  Lace top – FreePeople  //  Corduroys – Gap  //  Boots – Locale  //  Scarf – SheInside

That’s the saying isn’t it?  Well, it’s a full on snowy gray winter here, so I guess since I can’t beat it and I have tried, I might as well join in.   It seems that no amount of wishing and hoping, and wearing bright colors and lace dresses will make this bitter chill or tufts of snow leave.

I think the time has come to embrace the snow and the cold and see what will happen.  The least I can do is try to make the white and gray as fabulous as possible.

p.s. I think it’s awesome that no one noticed that I got rid of my highlights and dyed my hair back to dark brown about a month ago.  I guess it was only a dramatic to me.  It always is. 

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Maxi Lace Dress – Arnhem  //  Sweater – Ruche  //  Belt – Hadley Pollet  //  Boots – Aldo  //  Necklaces – F21

I love this gorgeous maxi dress from Arnhem.  It’s really a summer piece meant to be worn over a bikini rather than layered for this Winter weather.  But as you all know, I don’t like labels like “Summer” and “Winter” on clothing.  So I’m playing around and trying to figure out ways to wear this gorgeous piece all year round.

Thoughts? Other ideas on how to wear it? You guys always inspire me.

This Is Who You’re Dating

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Star Wars Leia Shirt – TeeFury  //  Cardigan – hand me down  //  Jeans – Gap  //  Beanie – UO  //  Socks – FreePeople  //  Boots – Locale

Andrew and I went out on a date.  Dinner, a little shopping, and a movie.  Yup, this was my hot date night get-up.  Just a little reminder of exactly who he’s with…sci-fi obsessed nerd girl.

Some ladies might put on a sexy red dress and heels, I put on my Star Wars shirt and beanie.  Oh yeah, hawt.

*sarcasm fully intended*

Limited Time, and Reading My Mind

Lace Top – Ruche  //  Sweater – hand me down  //  Jeans – Lucky Brand  // Boots & Natalie B Necklace – ThreadSence

Apologies for the lack of photos today.  There are legitimate reasons.

One being that I’m very picky with photos and therefore dislike the majority that Andrew takes when he takes my shots.  I prefer to tripod self-timer it, because that way I get exactly what I pictured in my head.  It’s very hard to get someone to read your mind, I’m still working on it.

Two, it was so freaking cold outside that day.  I had only about two minutes worth of fortitude in that wind and weather and as we all know, good photos take time.

merci
xoxo

p.s.  You can totally tell in that full picture that I’m freezing my butt off.

Woman at Work

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Cardigan & Top – UO  //  Pants – Free People  //  Boots – Locale //  Scarf – SheInside

This day I was on my way to assist at a shoot all day.  So the mantra of the day was comfortable, movable *to lift and adjust gear etc* and no jewelry *you don’t want it getting caught on some lever*

Since I couldn’t use accessories to brighten my wardrobe, I went for what Andrew calls ‘loud’ pants.  I love a good paisley.  Much more so than a floral, and this grey and cream pant was perfect.  They’re a bit big *they were on sale and the size left was a touch bigger than mine* so once I break them in it’ll need a good belt, but I kind of like the baggy boyfriend cord look once in a while.

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