The trip away was meant to be ‘doing nothing.’
A friend said to me recently, “You can’t make things nice, they either are or aren’t.”
Let’s face it, everywhere we look we have ads, or people’s highlight reels, or somebody enjoying something we want.
I love the show Lucifer. And you may say, “Jo! You’re totally messed up!” And you may be right, but the two aren’t mutually exclusive.
We all do it, we subscribe to the newsletter online, or in person at checkout. And then we’re bombarded with emails constantly showing us this deal or that deal or, “New arrivals selling out fast” and “Quick, you don’t want to miss this!”
Sometimes, Andrew says I can cause a scene. And he’s not wrong.
Don’t try to do things alone. We’re not isolated creatures. Nor are we gods who can do anything. Get some help with your goals.
A day spent catching up over brunch….
Everyone talks about how wonderful life is?
Changing others is a futile goal? You can’t change others. You can encourage behaviors, but you can’t force anyone into anything. You can however change yourself – to a certain extent, but I’m not going to get into the genetics of personality here.
